The Small Group Ministry Institute, held at Murray Grove Retreat and Renewal Center, Lanoka Harbor, New Jersey, July 22-26, 2013, was indeed more than a conference on Small Group Ministry/Covenant Groups. We went deeper in exploring the structure and impact of small group ministry on us personally, as well as on our congregations and Unitarian Universalism as a whole. The wisdom and discernment comes from the sharing of the participants as we considered what we are doing and why, and various ways of implementing the model that fits our setting. Presented here are comments from the following participants; other comments will be shared as they are received.
Gail Marsh Saxer, Toms River, NJ
Rae Ramsey, New York City, NY
Susan Webb, Bowling Green, KY
Rev. Dr. Jan Carlsson-Bull, Meriden, CT
Anne Gero, Boiling Springs, PA
Diana Dorroh, Baton Rouge, LA
What is your favorite take-away from the Institute?
The importance of having a strong SGM steering committee that includes representation from minister, board member and at least one congregant. I like the idea of including one SGM session as part of our newcomer education series. Angela Sullivan
The most fun take-away was the SGM of wayward participants. However, all the material was appreciated and extremely useful. The small group sessions were excellent. Gail Saxer
I feel that I have a support group around me for my work, resources to use as I need them, and a manual to go back to whenever I have a question about any aspect of our small group work. Rae Ramsey
Becoming aware of the patterns that are emerging with SGM. I was somewhat skeptical when we first talked about the "closed" 9 month groups, but became very enthusiastic about this as an add-on to our open-ended groups -- especially for young adults in our congregations. Anne Gero
The span of options for implementing and sustaining SGM that are practical, imaginative, and accessible through the Institute workbook and the ongoing connections with Institute participants as well as the SGM website. Rev. Jan Carlsson-Bull
The new connections and renewal of older connections in new ways that translates into new energy for working with Small Group Ministry. Helen Zidowecki
How did the Institute meet your expectations?
I came away with some inspiration to continue working on SGM and serving on the Network Board. I was hoping that would happen. I enjoyed working with the other faculty members and I think we made some new relationships and bonds. That will help with the Board work over the year. So, my expectations were met. I always enjoy working with congregational leaders who are planning to enhance their program or start one. Diana Dorroh
As a SGM Network Board member, the preparation as well as the participation more than exceeded my expectations. I gleaned a number of core ideas that I can immediately use in resurrecting Small Group Ministry in the congregation I serve as minister. Jan Carlsson-Bull
It exceeded my expectations. Not only was the information valuable but the participants were welcoming and caring. I felt that I made friends by attending. I would like others to know that the Institute provided excellent information in a format that was inviting and very informative. Further, all participants were delightful and helpful. All in all it was one of the best conferences I have been attended. Gail Saxer
In summary, I get excited about an Institute where we come away with so much more than the written plan and material that is presented. It is the moments of awareness, of sharing, of clarifying even as we talk with each other; it is gaining new insights that move Small Group Ministry itself forward within UUism. This happens when people at all levels of work with Small Group Ministry converge, listen, and expect to learn from each other. And that happened at Institute 2013! Helen Zidowecki